In a conversation with a friend, he asked about his refractory period and getting hard again quicker. Well, unfortunately I didn’t have the answer for him, and as far as I know, there isn’t the answer he was looking for, a definitive way to get an erection again after ASAP after ejaculation. So instead I offered him this advice: Your penis amounts for 1% of your body’s surface area, that leaves approximately 99% of your body surface that is left to be used to stroke, kiss, pet, cuddle, grab, caress, and/or massage the other 99% of her body surface area.
Raul Q (@RQ_Rude), a friend and sex positive activist, from his experiences:
…I think the same thing about gay guys who solely think fucking is the only fun you can have in bed, or that bottom or top are their only descriptors. There’s more to wonderful gay sex than just fucking an asshole!
So, to all the penis owners out there who use them for the pleasure of their partners, or even for themselves; expand your toolbox. You can do more than just insert that penis into a hole. You’ve got plenty of other body parts, and so does your partner, that can bring joy and pleasure to each other.
Sex Ed Steve 